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Tuesday, September 14, 2010
sexting: what parents and teens need to know

by guest blogger Susan Eikov Green, author of Don’t Pick On Me


It is very telling that the word “sexting” is not listed in the Merriman-Webster or American Heritage dictionaries. So where can you find a definition for this word that appears on television news programs and in newspapers and magazines? Wikipedia, of course. And that is perfectly apt, because “sexting” is a word born of the Internet.


Sexting - a combination of sex and text - is “the act of sending sexually explicit photographs and messages primarily between cell phones.” And for teen-agers, who don’t think twice about whipping our their phones, taking nude pictures of themselves, and sending those pictures to friends and boyfriends or girlfriends, it is an act rife with serious emotional and legal consequences.

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Posted By / 11:00 AM / Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Tuesday, September 07, 2010
sleep and sex after baby

by guest blogger Sara E. Rosenquist, author of After the Stork


Two of the biggest complaints I hear about bringing home baby are No Sleep and No Sex. So what can you expect? And how can you make the best of things during this difficult time. The number one risk factor for depression at any time in life is sleep deprivation. So it should come as no surprise that the sleep deprivation so prevalent with a new baby could cause major upheavals in mood and in the sexual relationship. And when baby is breast feeding in addition to sleeplessness, many women experience sore nipples and touch overload. So what is a couple to do? How do you stay playful and sensual when you’re tired and your body is on overload? The answers might surprise you.

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Posted By / 10:00 AM / Tuesday, September 07, 2010
Friday, September 03, 2010
how to stop sabotaging your relationships

Huffington Post feature.


  • Do you feel your partners value some of your behaviors at the beginning of a relationship but reject you for those same behaviors over time?
  • When your partners begin to complain about those behaviors, do you tend to be defensive and dismiss their concerns?
  • Do you find yourself stubbornly clinging to certain behavior patterns even when you feel you are pushing your partners away by continuing to do them?
  • Do you believe that your other qualities are so special that your partners should not hold you accountable for those that he or she doesn't like?
  • When your relationships end do you usually feel unfairly rejected and confused?

If you mostly answered yes to these questions, you may be a relationship saboteur. What that means is that you have repeatedly found yourself ultimately rejected for certain behaviors that your partners seemed to desire when your relationship was new, and cannot understand why.

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Posted By / 12:14 PM / Friday, September 03, 2010
Friday, August 27, 2010
some basics on sleep

by guest blogger Jackie Gardner-Nix, MD, Ph.D, author of The Mindfulness Solution to Pain .


There are five stages of sleep. You normally “cycle” through these about every 90 minutes as an adult. Stages 1 and 2 are light sleep: it’s easy to rouse you. Stages 3 and 4 are deeper, slow wave sleep: rousing you is harder and you may be disorientated on waking. The immune system is busy repairing your body from the usual wear and tear of your day in those deeper sleep stages. REM sleep is associated more with dreaming than the other stages. Having no, or too much REM sleep is associated with depression, and antidepressants can change the amount of REM. REM sleep is important for consolidating memory.

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Posted By / 11:02 AM / Friday, August 27, 2010
Monday, August 23, 2010
katy hutchison and restorative justice

On December 31st, 1997 my husband Bob excused himself briefly from our small dinner party to check on a teen's house party taking place down the street at the home of a vacationing friend. He never returned. Bob was beaten to death as he attempted to break up the party and I was left widowed with two small children. It took an undercover police operation to break the code of silence that shrouded the small town we lived in, and finally, five years later an arrest was made. Police were stunned by my request to meet the young man who was charged in connection with Bob's death. That face-to-face meeting was the first step in forever changing my perception of real justice.

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Posted By / 1:36 PM / Monday, August 23, 2010
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
8 tips for mindfully processing grief

Grief happens to all of us at some time in our lives. You may think that grief happens only after the death of a loved one, but you also grieve after any major change in your identity such as losing a job, divorce, kids going off to college, or moving. No matter the cause, grief can be one of the hardest experiences of your life. Not only can grief feel emotionally unpredictable, but it is often physically and mentally stressful and exhausting. The following tips can help you mindfully navigate the path of grief:

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Posted By / 12:12 PM / Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
ADD: 20 years later

by guest blogger M. Susan Roberts, co-author of Living with ADD


It is now 20 years since Attention Deficit Disorder first appeared in the 1980 version of the psychiatric diagnostic manual. In these two decades, much has been learned and much has stayed the same in our understanding and treatment of ADD. ADD is still defined by variability in three characteristics: attention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. Agreement is beyond reach on the many different forms of ADD —although there is recognition that not all ADD is alike. What has changed is a vast new understanding of brain’s contribution to these characteristics and how these characteristics appear in daily life, as well as how to live and work with them.

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Posted By / 10:00 AM / Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
do gluten-free like the clintons

by guest blogger Leslie Cerier, author of Gluten-Free Recipes for the Conscious Cook


Do it like the Clintons. Chelsea Clinton had a gluten-free wedding cake. Why gluten-free? Because millions of people are over eating gluten (wheat, rye and barley) causing migraines, indigestion, fatigue, depression among other chronic ailments. Not only people with gluten-intolerances will benefit from diversifying their diet and including a new variety of gluten-free grains. They are nutritious, delicious and fun to cook with. In fact, I am not gluten intolerant but for over twenty years have been enjoying gluten-free cooking and baking because it has given my family and me increased energy, stamina and variety in our daily meals.


Eating a gluten-free diet is good for you and the planet. The majority of the wheat grown is genetically modified and heavily sprayed with toxic pesticides that are hard for humans to digest. Our diets have been built around these wheat varieties that yield the highest quantities instead of the highest nutritional content. This book celebrates the earth’s bounty in the kitchen. Being adaptive, creative and conscientious is part of our recipe for reducing our carbon footprint.


You don’t have to be the Clintons to enjoy gluten-free deserts. Here is a hazelnut- chocolate chip brownie that will become one of your favorite recipes whether you’re gluten-free or not:

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Posted By / 10:30 AM / Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Monday, August 09, 2010
new ways of thinking about adhd

by guest blogger Lara Honos-Webb, Ph.D.


What if you defined yourself by what you are good at rather than by what you are not good at? What if you asked “What went right?” What if you believed that those talents that came as easily to you as falling off a log were your greatest gifts? Can you imagine the momentum you would generate if you called yourself or your child “innovative problem solver” rather than “stinks at math.” It seems easy to believe that the motivation and confidence you gained by defining your child by his or her gifts would make it easy for your child to plow through weaknesses – lack of focus, difficulty paying attention to details, impulsiveness, lack of stick-to-it-iveness.


I’ve always been amazed that though the word “ADD” and “ADHD” are bandied about like the latest fad in some circles or alternatively, as a life sentence in other circles, few have asked a deeper question fundamental to a disorder defined by an attention deficit.

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Posted By / 10:00 AM / Monday, August 09, 2010
Monday, July 26, 2010
5 ways to find out if you have adhd

New Harbinger's second piece on Huffington Post.


By Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D., author of 10 Simple Solutions to Adult ADD


Approximately 4 percent of the general population has attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). You may be wondering if you have ADD - you have difficulties staying on task, and tend to interrupt others, among other difficulties. Here are some ways that may help you find out if ADHD is an issue for you:


read the rest of the piece here.

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Posted By / 10:00 AM / Monday, July 26, 2010
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