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Tuesday, February 08, 2011
what’s the first thing you ask a client as you begin psychotherapy?

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I try to put myself in my clients' shoes as often as I can. When I think about "the first session" from a client's perspective, I usually think about how scary and intimidating it is to come into a session with a stranger and be asked all sorts of questions about your personal life. So when I first meet with a client, my first question is usually "What brings you to therapy now?"


I find that this open-ended question leaves the client with enough room to give me as much or as little information about herself as she'd like. And of course, while it's important that I get to know the client and how I can help, it's even more important that she feels comfortable, and that she begins to learn immediately that she can trust me. Without that trust, there can be no moving forward.


Quick Tips for Therapists.

Sasha T. Loring, M.Ed., LCSW is the author of Eating with Fierce Kindness.

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