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Tuesday, August 03, 2010
how do you help clients live according to their values?

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Part six of a twelve-part series on ACT processes


We don't want clients to fuse with their values or the values will rapidly turn into rigid rules. We want to be aware of and in touch with our values, but not fused to them. I once heard Steven Hayes say it like this, "Pursue your values vigorously but hold them lightly." One way we can make this point metaphorically is to encourage clients to think of values like a compass that gives them direction and helps them stay on track. You want to be able to take your compass out, take a bearing, put it back in your backpack, and take off on your journey. If you always clutch it tightly in your hands, it will hinder your journey and drain the joy from it.


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